My soon to be mother in law currently lives in Florida while we live in Michigan...we've gone to visit her and his grandma who also lives there two times in the 3 years we have been dating. The most contact I really have with her is through facebook with an occasional "hello" or commenting on pictures or something. He talks to her on the phone maybe once a month. She hasn't really tried to be involved with the wedding at all but is willing to help out financially, which is very nice. I've reached out to her a few times regarding wedding questions/details but don't get a ton in return or nothing at all via email or facebook....i'm trying to involve her a bit more but she doesn't seem to really care if she is or not...should I just assume shes fine with her lack of involvement and if she really wanted to be then she would reach out?