My MOH recently told me that a night before wedding suite for my out of town wedding is an unreasonable expense for her at $60...I told her after multiple emails were sent out about it months ago I wish she would've told me sooner but she is more then welcome to stay elsewhere.She told me not to worry shes going to pay it and stay in the room...then to continue she started comparing the costs to be in my wedding vs. what it is for me to be MOH in hers (she is getting married 5 weeks after me). At this point I told her i'm not sure exactly what she wants me to do about it and she just told me she didn't realize it would get to be X amount. I told her that if it's too much of a financial burden that she could let me know and I would understand...to which she told me "oh I can handle it I just think its crazy." She also made a comment that as her MOH she can't believe I picked my wedding to be 5 weeks before her date...i'm not sure where to go from here...I've given her options of not doing things when she complains about cost to me (this isn't necessarily the first time shes complained) but then she still participates in the events anyways...and clearly she has an issue with my wedding being before hers, which I can't do anything about either...would like some help as to where to go from here...I reached out to her yesterday and she said she would call me but never did to talk things out further...