FI and I are having trouble thinking of gifts for our wedding party. We want to keep it under $20 per person because we have 12 people total, not counting our parents whom we'd also like to get gifts for. For my bridesmaids I'm thinking about getting them each a mini-bottle of wine, an engraved wine glass and writing them a handwritten note, but we don't know about the groomsmen. I suggested maybe a cigar for each of them and a mini bottle of some type of alcohol (obviously, we're drinkers) but FI says not all of them smoke and he doesn't know what drink they would like to have. I also suggested maybe getting them handkerchiefs with their initials monogrammed but FI says that's too old fashioned. Any other ideas?
ETA: This thread may not be in teh right place. I apologize. Upon further browsing, I think 'gifts' probably is referring to gifts for the couple getting married.