My mother is convinced that if we don't put some kind of sign or note in the program telling people that we have open seating, they will become confused and upset that we didn't instruct them of what to do. She does not believe that they will be able to figure it out on their own, and promises me that if we don't give them instructions, they will ask her, and then apparently I will owe her a dollar for every person who asks her. I am trying to assure her that our guests are smart and can figure it out on their own, but she keeps saying that NOT telling them would be rude since they may be embarrassed about having to ask.
HELP. It's not that she has control over this, but she's going to bring it up again. And again. Help me be strong and not cave because she's *almost* starting to sound convincing.
(Also she thinks if I don't put the registry info on the Save the Dates that is also rude because people will not be able to figure that out, but I think I'm good at holding my ground on that one)