Hi! My fiancee and I are getting married in Michigan in October, despite it not actually being lawful. We currently live in Boston so are planning on doing the legal part (marriage license) here then just having the ceremony and reception in Michigan (where most of my family is). I don't have a problem with it, but my parents and other relatives seem confused. I'm in the vendor-researching phase and am worried that my business won't be accepted due to not being a hetero couple. I've checked out twobrides.com which was helpful. I hate that I have to ask "oh and just so you know it's a same sex wedding, are you ok with that?" (I also hate that my mother reminds me about needing to ask people that every time we talk about the wedding). Anyway. For those of you who've had weddings in states where it's not yet legal, what kind of issues did you run into? Any advice? (We're getting married at the Henry Ford Museum and they've been totally fine about everything so far).