My best friend and I both got engaged last year about a month apart.
My fiancé and I were certain very early that we wanted to have a civil wedding in 2015 followed by a symbolic wedding in 2016. Therefore we made an appointment in town hall to be married on September 5th very early on.
My friend is having her civil wedding end of June and the catholic ceremony end of September.
Can I still ask her to be my Maid of Honor or would that be inappropriate and selfish? I don't expect her to do anything (like planning etc.) I just want her to be there with me on my wedding day.
I'd really appreciate your thoughts on the subject!