So I'm having a late fall wedding in New England in the evening and it can get quite chilly. Since I kind of have a love of things elvish I thought a great way to incorporate this into my wedding (without it becoming a Lord of the Rings spectacle) and stay warm would be to wear a cloak instead of a veil. While I was looking for my cloak I found shorter matching ones and thought oh that'd make such a cute picture plus it'd keep my bridesmaids warm during the ceremony too! So I ordered them without giving it much thought...
Now before everyone comments on how rude this was of me, I realize that and that's why I'm posting. I'm sure we've all had moments of bridal blindness while planning and well this was mine. The problem is the cloaks were expensive and a little over the planned budget to begin with. I want to right this so I am brainstorming some cost effective ideas of doing this. I have a couple of ideas and I want to know if you would feel wronged if you received the cloak for the wedding (which I know will never be worn again) and one of the following:
1. I'm pretty crafty so I was thinking I could sew a clutch for each of the girls and put some small and meaningful things in it. I'm thinking a couple nips, nail polish, lotion, a bracelet/necklace (not for the wedding but I make jewelry), etc...
2. Give them each a bottle of their favorite wine (nice wine not barefoot or the like)
3. One of the minimergency kits from pinch provisions. They wont have to use it for the wedding I'm preparing a large kit for the bridal party.