We're less than a month away, I haven't had time to call the DJ (just emails back and forth). I haven't had the time to book a place for the rehearsal dinner. I found the venue, found and purchased decorations, took my sister to get a MOH dress and shoes, went with a friend to get my own dress, helped myself into my dress at the tailor's because my sister forgot to show up to help me into it, found the DJ, found the photographer... All my fiance has done is show up to appointments with the baker and florist and gave an opinion on cake flavor. He still doesn't have a suit. All I want him to do is book the rehearsal dinner and talk to the DJ. And get a suit. I have done EVERYTHING. And I am sick of his getting to just show up and get married. I've tried asking him. I've tried arguing with him. Asking him gets me, "I'm afraid I would mess it up" (the battle cry of every man in history ever asked to pitch in on "women's work"), and arguing gets me a complete lack of acknowledgement. Am I alone??? If he wants a rehearsal dinner, he better d*** well book it himself! I'm done!