Hi Knotties,
Has anyone ever had to asked their MOH to step down mid way through the wedding planning? I have 5 months to go before our wedding and I had to confront my MOH that she is being way too pushy, taking control over planning I specifically asked her not to, bugging the bridesmaids to buy decorations for a party I'm hosting at my house when I said it was not necessary, absolutely love the dresses I picked out for the wedding party and then a month later tell me she doesn't like strapless dresses, flipping out over every little detail, and the list goes on.... She apologized that she had no clue she was being over controlling and obsessive, the next day she was upset over the same things as before, and then when I went over to her condo on the third day and wan an extreme B*&%! I had no other option but to walk out because I had reached my limits of patience and she threatened me 3 times saying if I walk away she will assume for the sake of our friendship she is not in my wedding party unless I came back into her condo to listen to her rant over nothing! It has been extremely emotional because we have been friends for five years and in the past two years we have been inseparable. She contacted me once because one of my wedding guests sent her a gift to give to me. She didn't want to see me so she left it at the guards office of her complex for me to pick it up. We have not had any contact other than that since she threatened me.
What do I do in this situation? I wrote her a very long message basically asking if she is okay and I had to assume she did not want to be my MOH. I haven't heard back from her. I have never heard of her treating others this way and I have never had her treat me this way ever. We have worked together well with charity events, she was with me when I bought my dress, we had a blast together at a bridal bazaar, and we have so many fun pictures and memories together.