Sorry I have been MIA. Work and life in general has been super hectic for the last few weeks. I didn't get the job I interveiwed for (boo) and I've been back and forth with doctors and psychologists due to my increased number of panic/anxiety attacks in recent weeks, so I have been lurking but not posting here. Miss you ladies! I hope to get more regular again soon!
Anyway, I really need advice from you ladies! I have a friend, C. She is super great, but pretty flaky, I talked about her in the past (she and her bf broke up, she took it hard, I offered to be there for her, but she kept bailing on plans or ignoring me). ANYWAY after her ignoring me for such a long time (maybe 3-5 weeks) I noticed her posting pics of her and this random guy online. I didn't ask her about it, because, frankly, it's not my business. She can date who she wants to.
BUT then I found out she is back with her abusive ex husband- that is the guy she keeps posting pics of. When I say abusive, I mean he put her in the hospital at least twice and is awful to her kids. She legally divorced (he screwed her over royally) a few years ago. I am so upset that she is back with him; her and I bonded over getting out of abusive relationships.
I am really scared for her; I don't want her to get hurt. I feel like, since she has been blowing me off already, if I confront her, she will get offended and upset at me. But on the flip side, I feel like if I DON'T talk to her, if/when something happens, she will be able to 'blame' me in a way for not attempting to help her...
I am so torn... What would you do?
TL;DR: A friend of mine is back w/ an abusive ex. Should I say something or not?