FI and I started a registry this weekend at Macys because he will be leaving for work in another state soon and I wanted to make sure we got something done before he left. My question for all of you lovely ladies is.. We have lived together for almost 6 years, we own two houses together, and even have a fully stocked camp trailer, needless to say we have a lot of shit. I know everyone says to "upgrade" what you have, which is something we do want to do with some items.. But I'm having trouble with the dollar amount attached to some of the nicer things I would want to get. I have no interest in registering for new towels that are just a different color but still inexpensive, if I was to go buy myself new towels right now they would be more expensive.
So.. my problem is this.. I looked at what we registered for and there are a whole 20 items on it, most of which as an adult I would just buy myself if there was no wedding (ie ice cream scoop) but I feel like a pretentious ass registering for the nice things I would actually want.
How do you balance being conscious of your guests wallets and not getting a bunch of stuff you don't really want anyways?