I come from a small family, just me and my sister. She is the older sister and seems to do everything in her power to always make everything about her. I was married in 2001 and she was my maid of honor and she was married in 2014 and I was her maid of honor (by obligation, not by choice). Her husband and her never invited my fiancé to be a part of the day. He is legally blind and does not drive and he was excluded from the limo. I am now getting married to my fiance and I don't want her as my maid of honor. My fiancé and I are having a hard time including her in the wedding at all, but I know I want her involved. Is it wrong not to ask her to be my maid of honor?