I'm watching Lane's wedding on the Gilmore Girls.
I'm laughing so hard at all of them running from the Korean wedding to the church wedding because there are only 58 seats and there are more then that at the wedding. I forget who, but they have been there all night saving seats.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.