I am trying to decide whether or not to have first look pics or wait to see FI for the first time as I walk down the aisle. I'm leaning toward first look pics for a few reasons, but before I make my final decision I'd like to hear real stories of how it was actually done. Did you walk up behind him? Or did you walk toward him with him watching you, like he would have if you were walking down the aisle, the difference being that no one else was around?