We're having a very small ceremony and an informal picnic in lieu of a traditional reception. We're self-catering and will have one signature cocktail, bottles of water/soda/beer, and iced tea. It's only immediate family (siblings, parents, and nieces and nephews) and a couple friends, about 30 people total. Would it be tacky to have regular pitchers for drinks instead of a more attractive (but more costly) presentation? Being outdoors, I don't want to use anything that can't be closed, so I feel like a plain, lidded pitcher would serve our purposes. Will anyone but me actually notice or care what I put the drinks in, as long as there are drinks? Or should I splurge on something nicer to present them in