Dear Prudence,
I enjoy a warm, loving relationship with my two sisters and their daughters and granddaughters. Every year they get together for a Mother’s Day lunch somewhere and have a lovely time. I am the only female in the family who isn’t included in the luncheon because I’m not a mom or daughter, I suppose. (My mother passed a few years ago.) I understand that I don’t “qualify.” It’s just hard for me to understand why my loving female relatives choose to exclude me from the fun. If there were an Aunt’s Day or Niece’s Day, I surely wouldn’t exclude any of them. I certainly don’t expect to be honored in any way; I would just like to join in the celebration of women I love. Am I being silly to feel left out?