I am a bride planning a wedding from a long distance; I'm also a super laid back person. My wedding is important to me, but I also realize it is one day and I really don't feel the need to overly plan or get caught up in details. We having a traditional church wedding and sit-down dinner at a very nice venue. I
All I really want my bridal party to do is show up at the wedding. I have given them the option of getting ready with me, and the option of riding with us from my parent's house. I told them to pick whatever hair style they wanted, whatever shoes they like because I trust their opinion. I told them they're welcome to do whatever they want in terms of transportation and accommodations for after the wedding. I did not do a hotel block because everyone involved in the wedding is local. They are now texting, calling and emailing me nonstop about what to do in terms of after the reception plans. I honestly want to say that you're on your own. I'm not reserving rooms or providing transportation after the wedding.
The whole thing is stressing me out.
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