Thank You Card Question

MrsBiddy23

I'm stumped about how to start my thank yous to the numerous middle aged couples who are friends of our parents. Should it be "Dear Mr. & Mrs _____" or "Dear First Name & First Name". I plan to do Mr. & Mrs. on the mailing envelope. 

On one hand they signed their first names on the cards they gave us at our wedding, so it may seem impersonal to not address them each by name. Yet, for some of these couples, we hardly know them and I wouldn't want to come off as rude, so maybe it's safer to go the Mr. & Mrs. route...?

Thoughts and advice appreciated!

lzmac

Go with which ever way you put their names on the invitations.  Don't go any fancier or more casual than you did when you addressed the invitations.

 

If you put John and Jane Smith on the invitations, then use that.

If you put Mr. and Mrs. John Smith then go that way.

 

caseyandlizzie

If I knew them, I put their first names, if I didn't know them I put Mr & Mrs.

janedoe1113a

I'd go with however they signed their card.