Dear Amy: I was married to a woman for 20 years. During that time she cheated on me three times, and I forgave her because we have kids together. In the 20th year of our marriage, she abandoned us and went back to her home country. She was gone for three years before returning. My kids wanted her back and so I succumbed. That was two years ago. She says she doesn't feel emotional toward me. I have told her that we should part ways nicely (we are already divorced).
I have a new lady in my life, but she is also seeing someone else. I am now wondering if either of these women is any good for me.
Maybe I need to walk away from both of them?
— Confused and Lost