Hi everyone! I need some opinions on how I should word my wedding programs. My grandmother passed away 8 years ago. We were very close and I am devastated that she won't be here on my wedding day. My grandfather remarried 4 years ago and I am not close to his new wife at all. I think my grandfather would be upset if I didn't list her, but in my heart of hearts, I have no desire to list her as a grandparent in my wedding program. In my newspaper announcement, I listed them like this:
Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Grandfather (New Wife)
How do I put something like that in my wedding program? My fiance and I have a flower arrangement that is dedicated to our grandparents that have passed and have a write up in the program about that.
I guess the major question is can I just list my grandfather or do I have to list his new wife too?