I'm getting married in September and I asked my SIL to be my MOH. When her and my brother got together we were hardcore BFFs, literally doing everything together. We even got our noses and tongues pierced together! And have matching tattoos of "Sister" in Polish. Well after my ex and I split we drifted apart - her and my brother wanted to start a family and I wanted to be wild and let loose being as I never had the chance after having gotten married at 19 (and divorced at 22). I don't blame her for that at all, it's just how time played out and I love my nephew more than words. But we've never had the same relationship and seem to just talk about family get togethers, when we hear from our estranged father, and now the wedding.
Fast forward to now, I'm getting married and I asked her to be MOH and she accepted. However, the entire engagement has been one giant hassle. She hasn't liked ANY of my ideas, complained that it's costing her too much money - though her and my brother can afford an impromptu trip to Vegas and a cruise in July - and I haven't asked her to pay for anything aside from her outfit. Well, now she has absolutely disrespected my fiance by trying to call him out on social media and making comments of "ignorant janitor" and about his schooling past. She also doesn't like him and has said before that I'm more than welcome to come hang out with her and my brother, but my fiance is not allowed. Now I have also found out that she has said behind my back that she doesn't think I'm really in love with my fiance and that I'm just settling - which I'm surprised she would even think she knows considering we don't ever talk anymore!
I could deal with her being a pain with her opinions on everything, but I can't deal with her disrespecting my fiance like that. However, I worry that if I ask her to step out, she'll take my nephew (my ring bearer) out and my brother won't walk me down the aisle. I'm at a complete loss as to what to do and could really use some advice right now. TIA for anything you ladies got!