A few years ago, my now-husband gave his close friend $700 for his wedding, on top of the expense of traveling to attend the event. We were both students at the time so this was a *huge* expense, but we were happy to do it.
This past weekend when we got married that same friend and his wife came to our wedding and didn't bring so much as a card.
I understand that these are tough economic times, but these people are very well off: they own a $700,000 condo, drive nice cars and have great jobs.
We don't know if the card got lost or if they snubbed us. I don't really care whether we get a gift, but my husband is devestated that his life long friend could behave in such a way.
How should we address this?