My FI has lost my trust a few times too many, and now he had a major event that has "woken him up". He's not been an excessive drinker/smoker/gambler/cheater, but he hasn't followed through with his word many times. He has done everything I have asked to try and keep me, but something just isn't right with his family and how we will function together. I am a very trusting person, but I know that he will disappoint me again. He has promised to stand up to his parents for me over the last three years and has barely done so. He is afraid of them. He has also told me that he's talked to them when he really hasn't. I had initially said that he could do holidays and events alone, but that I would not be present in their home or when they are in our home.
Last week he was disappointed to agree that his mother would never be left alone with our future children. Now, he's agreeing to sever the ties if I stay with him. I'm fearful that he is agreeing to all of these things so I won't walk away. Invites should have gone out last week, but I'm hesitant to send them...I'm not running to the post office smiling, that's for sure! Any advice out there for me? I know this is vague...but I'm freaking out over here!