And I'm totally excited! We may even double up on prewedding events, possibly a joint family shower. We are very close in age and friendship and it's incredibly exciting to be going through this with her. She is my bridesmaid and I am hers, and we can carry on long text message conversations about wedding stuff without feeling self-conscious.
Plus, my fiancé and I chose to have a very long (18 month) engagement for personal and financial reasons, and she chose her date for personal and academic reasons. There's no "thunder" to be stolen because we both made decisions that work for us.
With my long engagement, there are long periods of drought where I (sometimes even intentionally) don't have anything going on with planning or vendors. Planning her wedding in 9 months (although that's not THAT short!) means things are moving quickly and it's a LOT more fun for me than my own wedding!
Okay, I gotcha with the clickbait title. I've just seen this topic numerous times and it's usually for the opposite reason, so I figured AW or not, I would share my positive feelings about the situation.