My wedding was this past Saturday - beautiful weather, great people with us...everything was perfect except for one giant thing - my husband's family. They showed up on Friday with an uninvited guest (someone that my husband told them was specifically NOT invited and was not to step foot into our wedding). When I approached his mother about this, she refused to talk about it. My mother & MOH then went to explain to this guest (in the nicest way possible) that she was flat-out not invited and that this was our wishes and they needed to respect it. His entire family then refused to come to the rehearsal dinner. When they showed up morning of the wedding, none of the girls (mother included) would talk to me or even look at me. The only person from his family who congratulated us at all was his brother. The whole family (with the exception of those in the wedding party) refused to sit at their reserved table up front, and ALL of them left immediately after our first dance without saying good-bye. To me, these things are unforgiveable, but at the same time, I don't want my husband to feel like he must choose between me and his family (though he's made it clear to me that he's incredibly hurt, embarassed and outraged at how they all acted). Am I overreacting by feeling that this is all unforgiveable? And if so, how on earth can I begin to move past this??
