Just got married.... the wedding was perfect. The thing that I really liked about the entire week before the wedding was bonding with everyone... especially my new sister-in-law who was one of my bridesmaids.
My SIL hooked up with one of the groomsmen- one of her brother's best friends as well as a good friend of mine. I think they just made out (I hope). I'm pretty sure she was drunk and he wasn't. The entire week the other bridesmaids and I noticed that she was attracted to this guy and given this guy's history we warned her politely to stay away from him.
This guy is my friend, but he has a bad history with girls- specifically taking advantage of girls when they are drunk. One of those girls was my best friend. Another one was another friend of mine from college.
I am really upset about this and not sure what to do. I know my SIL is an adult and free to make her own decisions. And honestly, I wouldn't mind if these two dated or hooked up under any other circumstances. But given the history I am concerned. They live very far away from each other so there is not much of a possibility of anything further happening, but they recently connected on Facebook and she is thinking of visiting the area he lives in this winter.
What should I do? My husband recently spoke with his sister outlining the consequences if they dated and this guy hurt her (which I feel he is likely to do). Are we butting in too much or are we correct for being concerned?