Calling all etiquette knotties!
This has been a long debated topic between my fiancé and I, and we have yet to come up with the actual etiquette for this... Just for ease, we will call the two guests Joe Jones and Sally Smith. (by the way, it took me way to long to come up with two fake names.. this green tea is not strong enough.)
So Joe Jones and Sally Smith have been in a relationship for a while and live together (unmarried). We are friends with Joe Jones and know that he will, more than likely, bring Sally Smith as his guest. Question is, do we address the invitation to Joe Jones and Sally Smith or do we address it Joe Jones and Guest? Is that offensive to people?
So! What is the proper etiquette here? Married couples get both their names on the invite while unmarried get their name and guest? Or do you still address to both people?? Any advice is greatly appreciated!
*Edit- it looks like we are stressing a lot over just one couple. For the record, out of the 300 invitations we are sending, about 150 of them will have this sort of situation going on. Just using one fake couple as an example.