gift card box dilemma

Knottie91800232

I think the gift card box we registered for is too small. 8"x8"x7" for 175 guests. We got it at the bridal shower a few months ago. I don't know gift-card-volume-to-guest ratios, so I was just guessing when we registered, and now having actually paid attention at other weddings this summer, I should've definitely asked for a bigger one. I'm close enough with the bridesmaid who gave it to me to tell her and I don't think she'll mind. But certainly it feels rude to not use it, and putting out two card boxes seems greedy. Any advice? Could I turn this one into a decoration by covering the slot and get another box? Do I need to just suck it up and put that small one out and let cards pile up next to it? (I really don't like this idea for security reasons, but if I have to it's our fault for not returning it I guess).

ShesSoCold

Hmmm. I don't have any advice on the card box itself but I really hope that is the only wedding related thing you registered for.

aliwis000

I agree with PP. I hope there was just a miscommunication and you didnt register for wedding decor and props. This is considered tacky.

As far as the box goes I would probably just use it, if it gets full you could have someone empty it. 

Viczaesar

Knottie91800232 said:

I think the gift card box we registered for is too small. 8"x8"x7" for 175 guests. We got it at the bridal shower a few months ago. I don't know gift-card-volume-to-guest ratios, so I was just guessing when we registered, and now having actually paid attention at other weddings this summer, I should've definitely asked for a bigger one. I'm close enough with the bridesmaid who gave it to me to tell her and I don't think she'll mind. But certainly it feels rude to not use it, and putting out two card boxes seems greedy. Any advice? Could I turn this one into a decoration by covering the slot and get another box? Do I need to just suck it up and put that small one out and let cards pile up next to it? (I really don't like this idea for security reasons, but if I have to it's our fault for not returning it I guess).

First, it's a card box, not a gift card box.  Important distinction.  Congratulation cards may or may not have gifts (gift cards or cash) in them, and you shouldn't assume they do.  You could keep an eye on it and if it's getting full during the reception you could empty it and put the cards somewhere safe.

Knottie91800232

Thanks for the feedback! In retrospect, it was a defensive move initially because FMIL started going out and buying stuff for the wedding, like our toasting flutes, before we could even register or approve. She did even go out and get a card box, to which I was able to politely say, Oh we've already registered for one! Temporary victory... On the plus side, it still looks better than the one she wanted us to use.

ShesSoCold

Knottie91800232 said:

Thanks for the feedback! In retrospect, it was a defensive move initially because FMIL started going out and buying stuff for the wedding, like our toasting flutes, before we could even register or approve. She did even go out and get a card box, to which I was able to politely say, Oh we've already registered for one! Temporary victory... On the plus side, it still looks better than the one she wanted us to use.

You do know that you can speak words, right? As in, talk to her? Registering for things clearly for the wedding is really tacky. 

Jonkobonko

I'm also having this dilemma. We are expecting about 90 people but I ordered a vintage wicker suitcase that is 10" x 8" (said 15" online, but I think that meant length when open, should have clarified with seller!).

From everyone's experience, is this big enough? Would having two be tacky? Should I just ask a bridesmaid to keep emptying it and giving it to someone working at the venue throughout the night?

STARMOON44

Omg calm. It will be fine. Yes having two looks tacky. If it is full, guests will figure it out.