H and I got married about a month ago. Given the financial (and emotional) cost of all the wedding planning, the start of the school year (we both work in education), and other factors, we decided to postpone our honeymoon by a year..
Unfortunately, we now have several weddings we need to attend in the next year, at least 2 of which involve substantial travel. H's cousin is getting married in the midwest near all of my extended family, who will expect to see us since most couldn't make it to the wedding -- so we'll have to extend that trip = $$. The second, my friend, just announced that she's getting married 4th of July weekend on the west coast, which I can only assume is going to cost us a fortune (at least one of us has to go -- she managed to get the money together last minute and did a 36-hour trip to the east coast for our wedding, which was huge). We hadn't planned anything super fancy or international for our honeymoon, but now I'm questioning if we'll actually be able to afford any other travel next year.
Did anyone else have to postpone their honeymoon til the 2nd year? Was it a problem? I guess I'm kind of worried that if it gets that far out either we will never actually end up taking one, or it will reach a point where it's stupid to even bother. The timing of the 2 dates we have so far would probably prevent us extending either trip into an actual enjoyable honeymoon (in fact, I might be coming directly from a work conference for the second one).