I have 10 months until my big day and since not all my bridesmaids know each other, I was thinking of having a "brunch with the bride" with my bridesmaids. I was thinking of doing this in October/November right before or after the bridesmaids try on dress options. I figured not only could we get together for everyone to meet, but I thought it would be a good time for everyone to discuss good dates for a bridal shower and bachelorette party.
(My bridesmaids all live in the same city, I live 3 hours away. I wanted to knock everything out while in town)
1. Is it okay to invite everyone to have brunch at a restaurant, but have everyone pay for themselves? I don't want people to assume I am going to pay for everything, since I invited them.
2. Is it obnoxious for me to want to plan out the dates for the bridal shower/bachelorette party this early on?