So our families are full of drama, I mean some serious crazy drama which is really making it hard creating a guest list for our wedding. First off, my mom has basically disowned me numerous time and she has expressed many times how she has regretted even giving birth to me, even though I have absolutely done nothing to her. We now hardly even talk, but my grandmother expects her to be invited, but I'm struggling with letting her come because I really do not want to share that special day with someone who has shown that she really doesn't care about my happiness much less even being around me. I hope I don't sound like a heartless person, but y'all have no clue at what all she has done to me throughout the years. Secondly, my fiancé's father and his wife are extremely rude toward me and hardly even acknowledge me anymore after they made up this big lie just to start drama. His father is also extremely mean to him sometimes, but at other times he's fine. His parents went through a nasty divorce a few years back and there are still severe hard feelings and I fear that having everyone in a room together will be anything but peaceful. With all that being said I have no idea what to do. I don't want to be rude to anyone, but at the same time I don't want to sacrifice our wedding day going smoothly and just everyone being happy. I've tried to talk with my fiancé about the matter, but he seldom even acknowledges me when I bring up wedding details. We were actually planning on eloping, but I'm scared I might regret not having the wedding experience and having those who are close to us there when we get married.