The First Scenario:
My fiance and I are graduating from college will our bachelors degree in May. We are the first generation in both of our families to graduate. We are also getting married in early July. With our wedding so close to our graduation, is there a good way to ask that people do not gift us anything for graduation and instead wait until the wedding? I just don't know if I can handle being in the last month before our wedding and having to write dozens of thank-you cards. Not to mention the cards for wedding gifts. (I am very happy to write thank-you's, it's just a lot all at once)
The Second Scenario:
When we get married, we will have lived together for 3+ years, and like many other knotties, we just don't need anymore 'stuff'. Our wedding website is independent (weebly) and we are thinking about adding a page about our honeymoon so that 1. We don't need to answer the "where are you honeymooning?" question hundreds of times, and 2. so that our family can really feel involved in our wedding. We both come from very non-traditional families and I am not concerned with honeymoon-related items being considered trashy. Obviously, I will not be adding "Couples Massage" or "Honeymoon Lingerie" to the list (let's be honest that's just SUPER weird). But I was considering listing bonus items that people could contribute to (we're going to Alaska, so "Sled Dog Experience", "Wildlife Tour", etc.) and setting up a "Honeymoon" box at the wedding for people to put cash and checks into (in envelopes with names, of course) to avoid any online fees and so we can thank everyone in person on our wedding day. We will be setting up a small registry with items like new sheets, but I really want people to feel like they are giving us something more valuable than money if they decide to gift. When I give gifts, I hate feeling like, "here's some cash" and I would prefer to say, "hey, here's a nice dinner on me". I would like to send Thank-You's with pictures from the trip (if they wanted it to be for a sled dog experience, I would send them pictures of us doing that). I would also put up all the pictures from the trip on our website for people to check out. So the question is, what do you think about this idea? Do you think there are ways it could be improved?
Thank you!