I don't want to have a traditional wedding shower. My fiance and I do not plan on registering for things we are just going to do a Honey Fund account. But, we realize people will still get us things so we want to still have some kind of "shower" (party).
My thought was to have an engagement party/wedding shower all in one (maybe just call it something funny like A Wedding Party). A house party, everyone welcome, both sides of the family etc. The invites will have our honey fund account info (you buy off of it, just like a registry) as well as option for gift cards (maybe Amazon or Home Depot).
My fiance wanted to do a pre-wedding party anyways to get our friends and families to meet and mingle. This would be that as well.
Has anyone done anything like this? Thoughts?