We don't want her at our wedding! My fiancés best friend has the worst wife ever! From day one she has given me a hard time, tried to get him to cheat, texted him to meet them out when in fact she was trying to get him to the same place to introduce him to another girl. told us both lies to try to get us in a fight. Came to our new home when we moved in and talked in down..even though its gorgeous and better than hers., We got a dog..i wanted a yorkie..she insulted my fiancé for months because he wasn't a man for allowing that dog in the house. Talked trash to all of our mutual friends. the problem? iv done absolutely nothing to this lady, on THREE separate occasions in 3 years, i have gone out of my way ( I'm 26 she 30)sent her a message to meet up and discuss issues if any, she always claims nothing is wrong. iv even given her the option for us to just be fake and get along in front of the men and thats it, no need to talk or have any relationship. She wanted to be friends...randomly stops talking about me and bashing me on facebook for NO Reason. haven't talked in a year, see her at parties we avoid her, talk to her husband, who actually helped set me and my fiancé up
The day after we got engaged i came home to a congrats card from her and the family. I thought long and hard and tried to get along so i sent her a text thanking her for her thoughtfulness to see if she would make small talk and things would be better. She responded with your welcome ring is beautiful and thats it. 4 days later we know we are going to watch the same band at a local bar so me and my fiancé agree that we will go in and when she comes over we will say hi be nice and see where things go. We walk in with another one of her friends and she looks over "OMG HELLO STRANGER" to our mutual friend and COMPLETELY IGNORES ME and turns her back!!!! AAHHH. i want her husband who we plan on having in the wedding party to come without her, or her not allowing him. I know she will come and ignore us and talk shit about everything and i don't want that stress. She can't really be expecting to get invited doing these things right? or does she just think she's entitles because she's his wife??? WHAT DO I DO!