My fiance called me today telling me his aunt is assuming she is in our wedding. I'm not really sure why she is thinking this? Was it because she was in his sister's I don't know? So he wants me to have her as a bridesmaid. I already have my girls picked out and I honestly don't want to add another one. His aunt is a nice person and she will do anything for us, but I really don't a 40+ year old as bridesmaid. He is telling my I'm being selfish. I told him I wanted her to be a reader or gift bearer in the wedding and told me no I need to make her a bridesmaid. What should I do? Thanks