Hey all! I was wondering if you could share your thoughts on the comments one of my bridesmaid's made on my menu.
Her thoughts were that people will not want to eat until the bride and groom are seated, but my thought was to have food (anti-pasta family style) on the tables so people could start eating straight away while we are going through the receiving line. I would hate to keep our guests waiting to eat!!!
We are 100% wanting the receiving line to ensure we don't miss any guests when thanking them for coming.
She said that either staff (or signage) should suggest that people start eating straight away should they wish, but for me that seems a bit silly? Surely if the food is on the tables then people will pick as and when they wish?
My friend thinks people will feel bad to start eating if we are not seated? Would you?Below is my menu and timeline...
Wedding ceremony 4pm till 4.45pm.
Veg crudités and dips during cocktail hour 4.45pm till 5.45pm served with Cocktails, Prosecco and craft beers.
Receiving line for 100 guests starting from 5.30pm till 6pm.
Antipasti on platters on the table served with Prosecco for guests to start on while waiting for all guests to be seated. 2 short toasts at this time once all guests are seated.
Anti Pasta, Bocconcini, chargrilled vegetables, salami, parma ham and mortadella, smoked salmon, sunblush tomatoes and olives, dressed rocket and mizuna, crusty breads with olive oil and balsamic family style.
6.30pm pasta course and main served.
Pasta course, open crab and crayfish ravioli, ribboned courgette and cream sauce.
OR option of pasta with a tomato and parmesan sauce.
Main, Chicken Saltimbocco, Madiera jus, sautéed potatoes with fresh garden herbs,
caraway scented carrots wrapped in baby leek, roasted vine tomatoes.
OR option of
Charred Aubergine, Courgette, Beef Tomato and Goat's Cheese Gateau, Wilted Spinach, Pesto and Aged Balsamic Syrup
(Dietary requirements catered for separately)
First set of band.
Wedding cake, Dessert TBC, cheese platter and fruit platter, coffee and tea, served buffet style.
Drinks, white and red wine served table side and other drinks such as rose wine, beer and mixed drinks available at the bar. The menu will list these so guests who do not drink wine know that alternatives are available to them.
Sorry for such a long post!!!! Do I need to tell people to start to eat?? Should I instead serve the anti pasta as part of cocktail hour?
Many thanks in advance!