I am getting married in September 2016, but I am a bridesmaid for a wedding taking place in May. I am having a hard time with all the bride's financial obligations.
I was fully expecting to pay for my dress, a bridal shower gift and a wedding gift, but she has now obligated her seven bridesmaids to pay for virtually everything.
We are responsible for our dresses, shoes, hair, makeup, our brooch bouquets, gifts for the stag and doe, the bridal party room reservations, the bachelorette party event (which includes an overnight stay at a hotel). She is also requesting the rehersal dinner be held at one of our houses.
This seems excessive. Am I just overreacting?