So we had decided not to do a first dance - I really don't want to, and FI is of the opinion that he doesn't want me to be uncomfortable so he is okay with that. I don't like being centre of attention at the best of times, and tbh I think I'll receive more than enough on my wedding day without getting up and dancing in front of all my guests.
I mentioned this to my parents in a casual conversation and they were quite vehement that I should have one, which surprised me. They told me that since 2/3's of the guests were travelling I couldn't very well just remove things that they were expecting to see. Normally I'd call bullshit on this, but its been playing on my mind a bit and I know you lot will give me a straight answer.
Am I being a spoilsport by not having a dance? Do people really care, will they miss it? I just don't want anyone to feel like I've dragged them all the way down here and I'm not even bothered about the wedding. I also might be overthinking this....