I am getting married in July, and when I asked my girls (She will be
to be in my wedding party in September I had recently had a falling out with my best friend (a falling out that lasted about 8 months, but now we are back and it's like nothing ever happened). I am also very close to her younger sister (she will be A) so I asked her to be my MOH since she was my closest friend at that time. Well not that the wedding planning is closer, the younger sister is engrossed in school and has an internship all summer (I am not upset about this, she just found out a couple weeks ago about the internship-school comes first). Well, B is 110% on board with helping, she is driving up to see me (7 hours from our home) to help with a bunch of planning stuff and to go shopping, girl time, etc. I cannot get A to return my texts, messages, calls for days/weeks at a time. I am starting to feel upset about how this is going, A promised me she can still handle being my MOH, but I feel her sister, B is filling that role more. Should I make B MOH as well?
The rest of my BP is a friend from college, a friend from HS, and my 2 younger sisters. My mom said my middle sister would of loved to be my MOH but since she is 15 I felt she was a little young.
I just don't want to step on anyone's toes or hurt any feelings. B and I have always been closer than A and I. But when I asked them months ago, B and I were not talking a whole lot because of the fight we were having, so I felt that if we could not even communicate this far in advance that there was no way we would be able too closer to my wedding, but we resolved our issues and now she is full board helping without me asking anything of her.