FI's grandmother reviewed our registry and found several hand-me-down items she already owns that we listed, and called to let me know that they are in good condition and that she was planning on giving them to us even though they wouldn't be through the registry. I'm not upset with her -- sometimes having hand-me-downs can be more sentimental, and I know she is thinking about us. A part of me is a bit frustrated though, since basically the whole point of us putting things on the registry was to ask for some new things to replace our own old stuff (we didn't make a very big registry -- 25 items of things we thought we could upgrade). C'est la vie, though, I guess. Should I now take those items off the registry? Should I be writing her a thank you card in advance since she has told me what she'll be giving us?