Dear Prudence,
My boyfriend is funny, kind, and I have never clicked with anyone as I do with him. He’s also living with his ex-wife and her boyfriend. They divorced two years ago but have young children together, so he moved into the garage apartment in the back of the house. Housing prices in our area are insane (it is true—I live with my parents to save costs) and anything he could afford would be more than an hour away. He is devoted to his kids, and his ex and her boyfriend are very nice, but the problem is I keep getting weird vibes from it all. I don’t know if it’s a sixth sense or I’m just being a snob (my boyfriend got married young and comes from a blue-collar background). Can you give me some perspective?