Hello!
I'm new to the boards and I just really needed a place to safely vent. When I first got engaged (only last month), FH had asked my parents permission. They gave the blessing but I know them and they are not happy that I'm moving out this summer with FH, and my mom even said that she thinks we are rushing things and going too fast. My parents are not helping to pay for the wedding (though they helped pay for half the dress and are photographers that will be taking pics the day of) but the MIL has offered to pay for just about everything including the honeymoon. My mom and MIL clearly want a bigger wedding than I can a.) afford or b.) even want. We've finally convinced them that we won't have 80+ guests, and will only have 20-25 guests. On top of them wanting certain things and thinking we're insane for not wanting them, we are also having a very hard time finding a venue that fits our teeny tiny budget. Which freaks me out because it's 304 days till the wedding and I know how fast venues book up. Some places we would already have to move the date around.
What do I do to calm down, relax, and find a venue??
"Let me give you some advice. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister