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People RSVP'd to the STD's online

I'm decently sure the answer is yes, but my Mom and I disagree, so here goes:

We recently sent out our STD's via Paperlesspost.com. The STD's had the standard info on them: Save the date! Our names are getting married. Chicago, IL. Date. Direction to wedding web site. Formal invitation to follow.

Paperless Post allows people to send a message to us. Most messages are lovely congratulations and whatnot. A couple of people have actually RSVP'd no by message. To be clear, the STD didn't ask for an answer, they just volunteered the info. I assume that we still need to send them all invitations, even though they RSVP'd no, right?

Re: People RSVP'd to the STD's online

  • LtPowersLtPowers member
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    edited May 2016
    You are correct.

    And don't assume their answer will remain the same after you send an invitation (i.e., don't automatically count them as a 'no'). But if they don't respond to the invitation, you can assume they're not coming.
  • Ditto PP.   Send them invitations.   Some people who said no may be able to make it.   Others who think they can make it may not.   
  • Thanks guys! Totally makes sense to me :)
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