Hi Ladies,
First off, I realize these "issues" will be so irrelevant on the big day, but I need some sound advice for now.
I asked my FSIL to be a bridesmaid. We've always gotten along and are really good friends. Since then, there has been a small rift between us. She has been very distant but critical of my decisions and always comes to me with problems.
For instance, she wants to throw a shower of which I am very grateful but she has picked the date, theme and place without so much as a "What do you think?" I felt left out of the decision making process and more like it was about her and her convenience, than something I would choose.
She also threw an engagement party (she did the invites) after we returned from our vacation (where he proposed) and she didn't even tell my mother!
Also, I sent all of my bridesmaids an email update with the bridesmaids dress link and instead of acknowledging the email, she scolded me for sending to her work email. It's just that there are a million other ways to say something without so much sass! Ammiright?
The other maids have commented on the way she comes across and I feel the need to say something but want to do it gently. Am I totally off base? Or have I encountered someone who may be a tad jealous/critical of someone else in the spotlight?
What should I do?