I understand how unplugged ceremony requests are rude (and have seen the recent thread on that particular topic), and completely agree.
However, I'd be curious to know if it is acceptable for our officiant to ask guests to silence their cell phones about 2-3 min before the start of the ceremony? She won't be asking them to put them away, just a friendly reminder to silence their phones, as the ceremony is about to begin. I have seen this announcement at quite a few recent weddings, and I personally always appreciate it (since I can be a bit scatterbrained, particularly if I'm greeting family and friends that I haven't seen in ages, and also since it gives me indication that the ceremony is likely about to start. However, I wanted to see if this request in and of itself was considered rude, or acceptable?
(Note: I looked through some past threads to see if there was discussion on this, but everything I found was either really old, or more about the topic of "unplugged" requests, as opposed to a silence-your-cell-phones announcement).
Thanks!