I know someone who is already married but is lying to friends/family & planning a wedding...including a shower, officiant, etc. She's also posting on social media about how many months til we say 'I do' & how long til 'we're husband & wife'. They already are!! I was so upset that I did not attend the shower. I felt I couldn't sit there & play along with the lie. What's your thoughts on this? Is there ever a valid reason to do this?