The deadline to RSVP to my cousins wedding is next week (for a late September "black tie optional" wedding weekend extravaganza, ugh) and I've been holding off on sending it back because I am spending way too much time thinking about how to fill it out. The invitation came addressed to "Mr and Mrs husband's name" and I really exceptionally hate being called Mrs husband's name. So I want to cross off the M in the rsvp line and just write both our names, but I'm also afraid that makes me look ignorant or petty. Thoughts? Best way to make it clear that I still do have my own first name? Should I just suck it up and be Mrs husband?
I know this is the best place to get honest feedback and be told if my idea is exponentially stupid/rude or if I've got some leeway in filling it out.
Thanks!