Hi! I am looking for advice. Please honestly tell me if I am being too difficult or a bridezilla. So here's what's going on.
My Fiancé and I are getting married in two months, and we have had our wedding party set almost since we got engaged in the spring. All of his brothers and his brother in law are groomsmen, and all my sisters and his sister are bridesmaids.
Here is where the issue comes in. My mom decided this weekend that she is no longer okay with the fact my older brother is not a member of the wedding party. He is an usher, still getting a tux, and is playing some of the music for the ceremony, so I do not feel that I'm excluding him. It's just that my fiancé is not close to my brother at all, and I haven't been in recent years, as he struggled with a drug problem with no desire to get help. I still wanted him to feel included in some way, but not in such a place of honor as being a groomsmen.
Am I being difficult? Please tell me if I am being unreasonable. I don't want to change it, because I am happy with the way it is, but if I am being awful, I want to know. We could figure out a way to rework the wedding party.