Hey Knot Community! I have a bit of an issue with a guest. My FH's best man is married and we were both in their wedding as the MOH and Best man. Just a little background on this person, I was her third MOH, she was emotionally and physically abusive to me through out the process when I tried to help her plan her bachelorette and be the best MOH I could be. It was awful!
Now it's my turn to get married and my FH and I decided we don't wnat a big bridal party just an MOH and Best man. My MOH has been my best friends since 5th grade and I wouldn't want anyone else. When I told the Best mans wife that we weren't doing bridal parties back in August she gave me a cold "its your wedding do what you want" and ever since then has refused to speak to me. She went as far as blocking me on messenger and texting/calling. I did the whole unfriend on facebook etc because it was getting too much for me. However I'm worried she won't let her husband stand there and be the best man and while FH says he would be fine if that happened I still don't want to be the one responsible for it. Should I reach out and try to keep the peace or just move on? I shouldn't be made to feel bad for my wedding choices but for some reason I can't let this go and I just want it over with.