long time lurker from years and years ago, now planning a wedding for october next year!
i'm making a wedding website and it comes with an option to upload your guest list and have them RSVP online. is there any value to this, thinking some people will RSVP after receiving the save the date, allowing you to at least get a start on head count?
i'm wondering if people would ultimately get confused...RSVP online and not RSVP after receiving the formal invitation, or vice versa. it would be helpful to know beforehand a "Regrets only" kind of deal, but i dont want to have to request someone to RSVP twice - once online and once with the invitation.